Gossip: Inflated Runs, Worst Kind of Mouth Diarrhea.

We’re all drunks; whether dry or wet, we saturate ourselves with whatever drink suits us, best. We make allowances, contrive excuses, contend logic and sustain our positions, no matter the preferred foundational premise upon which our pendulum swings. We do whatever it takes to make our case; the one, which is right for/with us.

It makes little difference whether we are 'for something or against it', the befallen judgment will critically veer away from us onto the other who, we deem, is so much more to blame. He is the one does wrong. He is the one who should have known better. He is the one who causes harm in his household while we remain blameless.

Why must we find fault? Why do we choke the life out of the other person with our condescending attitudes and deprecating opinions? When did we get so ‘high and mighty’ that our putrid feces ceased to stink? Pray tell me, when were we appointed to sit in the elevated cushioned judgment seat of another? Is it not written to "pluck (smote) the beam from thine own eye before trying to remove the plank from thy brother’s?"

And, yet we continue on; as if it’s our sovereign duty to do so.  We take some sort of smug pleasure in casting a dishonored and disdain verdict upon the other. It makes us feel good. Or, at least, that’s what we tell ourselves as we are babble on with our ceaseless slandering, gossiping and casting 'latest' smut like flouring chicken to fry.

Little do we realize at the time, but casting so much aversion on another depletes us, drains and debilitates our energy. We lose a little more of ourselves each time we discount or discredit someone else. Yet, we prattle on, as if, our lives depended on showering bad news and ill credits about the one who “does so bad” and “simply won’t change.”

If we could but see the maggot- ridden filth falling from our lips as we stalk so desperately for cherished support from all of those who are in ear shot of our disseminating verbose rants. We smile a little broader and talk a little louder when we see we’ve hit a home run of agreement with the others.

Our backs straighten, our feet dig into the floor, our vindictive smile broadens, as we gear up for another round of derogatory insult. We nod to ourselves in affirmation that what we’ve spoken, once again, is the holy law of god and everyone needs to know it, one more time!

A drunk is a drunk is a drunk; not one bit of difference between the alcohol inebriated man who slurs his words and the one who elongates his words of defamation, cold sober in idle rumors . Both are unbalanced and out of order. But, at least the intoxicated drunk has a verifiable reason for acting so blatantly obnoxious and stupid.

The dry drunk, on the other hand, is simply unconscious for what he is saying and moreover plain ass mean! That is not to say that alcoholics can’t be mean, some of them, are downright cruel and abusive, too.  Yet, he’ll sober up eventually and sometimes feel sorry for how he acted. Not that I’m into singing a song and dance of “sorry"! They serve  nothing but the inflated ego's gestures in the worst kind of mouth diarrhea.  But, I'm sour to say:  a dry drunk never sees the error of his ways.

We are all in this world together; stumbling around, bumping into each other, falling down, staggering and swaying in and out of difficult and embarrassing situations not having a decent clue why we are here in the first place; what we are doing while we breathe, or how, when, why and for what reason we ever lived through what we did and then, have to, “just like that” die, without warning or settlement.

Seems pretty imperfect from this side of the veil, with the best of answers offered from scientific venues to religious organizations. So, why on earth do we battle, condemn, and denounce others who are simply trying to find their way through the mystical maze, the best way they can, too?

They, like us, are merely seeking their chosen pleasure while avoiding pain.  They, like us, do all they can possibly do to make it right for them.  They don’t have any more solutions than we do and certainly not enough to guide them through the formidable maze without our having subjected them to the unjustified, bitterly infested, spitefully  colored ways and means of 'preferred lofty thinking and living' we parade around with bountifully dispersing it as the Holy Grail.

Oh! How we are consumed with so much fear and ignorance. Never one time admitting to ourselves or others, on some level, everyone is afraid. "Let me make myself perfectly clear", as Nixon used to say: Fear continues to be the only other human emotion besides love. It is written in the ancient scriptures; "Perfect love casts out all fear.”  Are we demonstrating love, {sharing/giving} when we are accusing, gossiping, judging, condemning, and ridiculing others? NOPE! I say not.

We don’t have to conduct ourselves like that! We don't have to fill the slot bumping full as DRY DRUNKS!  We can be more understanding. We need not continue with a brute like intolerance of others and their choice of crutches. Would we dare let others freely look into our closets and basements to see ours?

We all try to survive. Self-preservation is what we know how to do best! We've got that trick down to a fine science. Once we are convinced, we are not going to be swallowed up by failure, loss, disappointment, embarrassment, and devastation, we begin to open our minds a little more to allow others the same right to ‘work out their salvation’ in whatever ways and means set before them.

We have none been appointed the awesome task of making clean the apparent gutter other. How dare we assume ours is any less clean? I mean really, give me a break. "Hurry, grab a tissue; no,you'd better get the whole damn box! I feel you're fixin' to tell me how you never do things like that. How when you hear others start up some ruinous drinking, drug, cheating tales on others, it makes you cringe. You even tell them to shut up. Yeah, right!"

Do You Stop To Count The Cost Before You Give To Someone?

The ability to share is the single most engaging commanding secret of life! Notice: Ability is the key word, here. You have the ability to do a lot of things, but do you use the ability is another topic of conversation, altogether. Sharing is not what you typically think it is. Sharing is not offering another person some of what you have.

Sharing is not giving to someone with an idea attached of how much you gave, when you gave, and certainly not with the notion of recompense.

You can’t possibly share anything IF you are aware of your actions. (meaning: You are thinking about what it is you are giving) Sharing occurs naturally and conveniently without forethought, afterthought, or in the midst thought. You never share objects, money, or places. These things you don’t possess, though you may believe otherwise. The only possible asset you have is to share of yourself. As Emerson so aptly said, “…A portion of thyself…”

We, as human beings are constantly receiving from the universe and because we are so richly endowed, we must in turn keep the flow going. Sharing is a cosmic circuit of prosperity which when slowed by your act of plugging a conduit results in backlog. In other words, you pay for what you don’t send out.

You are in actuality taking away from yourself because you NEVER and I do repeat NEVER share with another. You are always sending out to yourself. It is written, “…Prove me now herewith; I will pour out a blessing you will not be able to contain…” (Paraphrased) IF you are lacking in anything in your life at this time, it is solely because you are not sharing.

In essence, you are hoarding. Hoard can mean holding onto worn out ideas that are no longer relative. Hoarding can mean you openly refuse to contribute to a relationship and/or creative endeavor. It does not mean to throw yourself away by not valuing your time, energy and effort, however.
And, It absolutely does not mean to open yourself up like a 24 hour 7-11 store to all nomadic parties. And, incidentally, money is the LEAST you can share.

As I have already clearly stated you do not share anything, in actuality but yourself. Money is a form of you. But turns into stagnant energy unless kept in the process of moving. It is no more than dead inert paper unless doing its inherent job in exchange of services rendered.

Keep the funds flowing. OK. OK. Keep moving is the key! Ironically, the one thing most people begrudge is sharing. Truly to give of oneself unconditionally is a most exalted state, few people realize or appreciate. But, the ones who do are the richest people in the world! Most people do not like being inconvenienced. Sharing, to them, seems like an inconvenience. It requires of them to break a musty idea they’d like to retain: That they will be without IF they share. Nope. Wrong. Not so.

You will continue to be without unless you do share. I must be totally candid with you sharing is not sharing at all. It is giving. You can not ever think of yourself as sharing but giving. To give is to participate in a magical process of receiving. You can’t possibly know this statement to be true until you are at the place in your life where you can give without a thought of what you are giving, how much you are giving, to whom you are giving and that you are giving. You are a giver; you just don’t know it.

If I could share with (give) you this one dynamic unparalleled secret: You are never giving anything to another, no matter how it appears. You are always giving to yourself. So, it almost seems selfish to give, right? It’s much too easy to believe that If I give you a dollar, I have taken from my pocket and handed it to you. But, it’s magic, I’m telling you. Pure unadulterated magic. The dollar did not start with me nor will it end with me. Can’t you see this principle?

It must travel. It is commissioned to do a divine work. Just like you. You are the wizard transporter. It will return to you many times over but only on the condition that you send it out. Now, here’s the clincher (there’s always a clincher) you Can’t give merely to receive. (Even though the law will ultimately work in either case) In order to expand your awareness of the universal laws in operation behind the so-called world of reality, you must not have an aim proposed. You must give freely without a string attached.

Strings act like a boomerang and snatch from the one who holds the string. (Sorta like a runaway kite)

Next, funky tidbit regarding sharing (giving) You can’t recognize a need in yourself to give. That’s gluttonous vain glory. That’s the brass tacks of the matter. They hurt if you step on them. Ask yourself: Do you have a need to be remembered or valued for having shown your generosity or benevolence? Do you, after having given of your time, effort or money think to yourself what a wonderful person you are for having done that particular act of charity?

 

Do you stop to count the cost before you give to someone? If so, keep your meager pocket gift. No matter if it is a truly expensive gift or gesture, it is still pocket change. A poor woman’s paltry attempt is far more glorious and resounding than your conscious recounted act of pious giving.

When and only when you give without thought or recourse are you truly sharing. You never give to be compensated. Otherwise the gift is for gain. (Plain and simple) When the first motion of sharing is acted upon, the invisible reward is thereto attached. You can never be cheated out of a return. But, on the same token never attempt to give to get. (IF you’re really not up to the challenge leave the powerfully impenetrable secret, alone!) No one says you have to give.

The concept of sharing is really very esoteric. It is impossible for you to give without receiving. It is like planting a seed in the spring’s richly receptive soil. No one needs to worry or fret over whether or not the seed will burst through the ground. The flowering of the seed was guaranteed the moment it was buried in the earth. So too does the act of giving insure a flowering. You are commissioned to share. It is your innate nature as a divine human being.

 

 

To deprive yourself of the joys and pleasures thereto attached are in themselves delirious, painstakingly harmful and completely unproductive. Money is the least commodity you possess to give. How do you feel about giving the least? What is your idea of the most you can share? Make a committed effort of joyfulness to share something everyday. Get to that place whereby you are totally unaware of giving. Give. Give. Give.

 

You’ll be amazed at what happens. Its fun and it’s full of everlasting cosmic enriching passion.

Cinderella Point of Making Meaningful Contact In Your life!

When we are just about to give up or give in, help arrives. It called the Cinderella midnight hour! The lowest point usually portends and proceeds the dawning of a new opportunity. Better than we had ever hoped for or imagined. We need be exceedingly grateful IF we are observant and aware enough to recognize the disguised arrival. When we are that grateful, so utterly grateful, to those forces we cannot see with the naked eyes, our lives take on richer meaning.

No other mortal person has wrought this thing of apparent good fortune but is the accumulative result of psychic forces operating within us as self-generated antennas of attraction.

Therefore, we are never to be grateful to another who walks on two legs. As confusing and ambiguous as these words sound, they present us with the foundation upon which we can honor our walk in a most holy manner.
We are the summit of our unrevealed desires and the deliberate manifestation, thereof. Our inexplicable convictions are strong and should be relied upon, always. We are never to check with another for approval, validation and appreciation. We shall walk through the door of our soul’s intently expressed artistic delivery IF we sweep the floor of all anxiously conflicting motives coming either from ourselves or the other. We sometimes place more importance on the opinions of someone else, who knows nothing of our designated work, than we do in the consistent verifiably pulsating meaningful desires within ourselves.

When these auspicious times of celebratory significance arrive, we need be cautious in the ways and means of telling others about them. Too easily are the sacred impulses zapped from us from what would be called ‘psychic vampires’? Just because we receive verification about a certain idea, whether revealed in a dream or by seeming coincidence, (the more unlikely and bizarre it’s delivery, the most sanctified the message it holds) the matter must NOT be discussed openly with others until we’ve had time to process it.

Now, in the moment of nebulous formation (not knowing how it will come to pass or IF it even will materialize) is the sanctioned time to give the very least we can of ourselves. We are not to waste our energy talking and discussing these precious “foolish” things.

 

We can’t possibly realize the expenditure of wasted primal energy discussing things that have not fully formed, yet. It’s like “casting pearl before swine.”

In times past, we have been much too open in revealing plans that have not had the chance to materialize into form. Those in the KNOW would call this silence, the absolute necessary sublime ingredient in the preliminary stage of sanctified magical creation. Progress, (which is simply impossible to gauge by human eyes) is rendered impossible if we continue to talk incessantly and convincingly.

In other words, “Don’t be so available”. Agree to nothing. Disclose less. Be as vague and nondescript as humanly possible. Do as little as we possibly can to help the one who is oppressing, inquiring, and manipulating. Shut up! Smile. Change the subject. Characterize and communicate the conversation as something totally uninteresting. We must realize that a deep transformative sexual energy transmutes lead into gold in these situations. Use the opportunity accordingly. Never ever feel obligated or guilty, responsible or duty bound for withholding.

What is real sexual intimacy? The psychic ability to be in the presence of another without having to think about the relationship; the interaction forms a bio-electrical charge of inexplicable permeable saturation. The resonating vitalities of the two physical bodies, so energetically magnetically fuse together, that orgasmic pleasurable sensations move beyond definitive words.

Giving personal attention to the fantasy side on our inner most being releases the innocent childlike artistic expression. Laughing uproariously enables it to flow without conflicting boundaries and restrictions. In order to explore the depths of our unrealized passions, we must break through the tenacious confining restrictive modes of operative forces of the character which define, demonstrate  and deliver an acceptable, identifiable way to be. Forget about it. Live on the edge of ‘yet to be’ realized sublimely sexual creative artistic forces!

Are we pure? Yes and no. Yes, we are incorrigibly innocent and shall remain so forever as the unchangeable essence of spirit which comprises us. Are we impure? Yes. Our thoughts, drives, impressions, desires and impulses to hurt (get revenge), harm (get ahead), compete and compare work overtime to render us pathologically human. To eradicate the feelings of intrude, when propitiously rendering a desired challenge, leave the sacred subject unmentioned for a period of 30 days or for the period of two new moons to correlate. Do not speak of it, even in private.

Practical, applicable ‘seasons of change’ feel awkward at first, simply because we are not accustomed to living outside of the boundaries of our affixed limitations. We are so saturated by identifications, we often times, water down the importance of our newly arrived visions. In order to secure the celestial revelation, we must bear up under the weight of anxious expectation. Give not credence to the feelings of rapidly changing moods as the ‘seed of prosperity’ grows beneath our feet in the ground.

We are well aware, or should be, that incalculable lives of disparity have played and continue to play an influencing flavor of distraction in our personal walks. We are not singular in our individual aspirations. Neither are we to discount, dismiss and denigrate them based solely upon the limited range of information we have at present to properly access their value. “If IT matters to us; then it matters!’ (MODE of Cosmic Therapy© 2003)

Multiple connections of various lives affect our reality, along with the ability to adequately interpret the meaning associated. We are evolutionary creatures whose vanquished ideas are superimposed on us until the ‘visionary realization’ creates another level of dimension to discover, explore and expand. It comes down to a plain simple truth: we must learn to integrate a new way of interacting with ourselves. We must allow for the possibility of our being more than what we recognize ourselves to be to surface.

The vital life-altering occasion and youth-sustaining necessary time has been allotted for us to STOP the interactive negative chatting with ourselves and the ingrained thoughts of damaging threats and berating conditions of depressive doom. We will not be a slave to the habit of repetitive misery by continuing with the same old patterns of destructive recourse! We will do whatever is called for to make a little room for the seed to burst through the hardened soil of bitter discontent. The Tree of our Personal Integrity will explode into the heavens with innumerable branches of mystical spender showering the entire earth.

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Nobody Can Do You Like You Can Do You!

MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Realizing Who WE are! Here’s the deal.

Nobody can do you like you can do you. You are an unmistakably incredibly
distinctively unique human being. No one, who has ever lived before, now or after you have passed through this life, can or ever will be able to match you.

Without a doubt, no one feels, thinks, acts, studies, eats, sleeps, engages in sexual activity, holds a conversation, works, sings, laughs, worships or not and/or interacts in relationships in exactly the same manner as you. You maintain a solidified unbreakable persona (DNA structured make-up) that can not be matched or duplicated in unadulterated precision.

Try as one might, the process to imitate you or your specifically
calibrated actions are virtually impossible. Your thoughts alone, encased in
the rhythmic definitive nature of your specialized breathing belongs to your
body/mind alone.

Among the almost 7.3  billion people who inhabit the earth, no one can come close to rendering a facsimile of your true sexual artistic creative nature. You were born as an inherent artistic sensual vibrating energy whose mystery is undisclosed even to you. You are you because you are you and no
one else. In that respect, you are exceptional. What does that have to do with anything?

 

                                                               Everything!

You were born exactly as singularly you for reasons beyond your present scope of understanding or appreciation. You are endowed with enormous gifts, potential, talent and abilities not yet discovered or activated. For that reason alone, are you relegated and designed to perform magnificent feats of unparalleled commotion.

Everything that makes up your human body including the 46 chromosomes, 23 from mother/23 from father is only the pin pointed beginning of the nitrogenic reference point of what actually makes you who you are.

Not only does the intricate networking of the gigantic chemically electrical
hormonal osmotic fluid processing plant [known casually as your human body]
comprise your existence but every existing apparatus {organic and inorganic}
that has ever passed your way in the external world before you were born, while
you inhabit the earth and after you’re gone, has/ had/will have and unceasingly
shall continue to play a significant role in developing of your matchless
contribution on earth.

You are part of a fathomless whole! The mind boggling things you are capable of implementing cannot be written in words of any language. YOU are nothing short of miraculous!

If you can but stop for one moment to realize that when you were first
conceived, the spark of your life was invisible transported (transfigured) into visibility from a minuscule pin head dot into the fully formed person you are today. How can you ever doubt your adaptabilities in any situation no matter how difficult?

You were magically transformed from nothing
into something!

Wow! Just think about it. It all began with a meeting of two energies: yours mingled with and manufactured by the universal divine brought about through the process of human interaction. Can you get with that?

 

Can you envision the magnitude of your sacred ability encased in your exceptional presence on earth?

Each and every existing consecrated aspect visible and invisible in this world, among these galaxies and other dominions of galaxies, throughout all universes and beyond, throughout time and space as we understand its relevance brought you into being. You are a product of all that has ever been or ever will be. The ineffable celestial creation is in you and you are in it with no definable separation.

 

                                                When you breathe, you breathe you!

You are incomparably divine in nature, structure and unconditionally remarkable in every way. And, so is every other human being that has ever existed or will exist. It’s that simple and complete.
Just like you were held inside a sac of gaseous/mineralized water while in your mothers’ womb, (and depended upon her to support, nurture and sustain your life) so too are you held in a celestial nitrogenic gaseous/mineralized universal fluid of H2O for purposes to survive/thrive.

You are indeed magnificent; divinely so! You are alive for an incalculably specific
reason known only to the intrinsic celestial creator: whether you refer to
her/him/it or nothing at all. Still, you unquestionably exist as part of whatever you prefer to worship, love and serve.

No matter your differences and/or preferences, the fact that you are breathing
indicates you are intricately intertwined in the abundance of all that is. If
you deny that anything exists outside of yourself, then that too verifies the
existence of something (be it the denial, itself) maintaining you without
explanation, defense, excuse or confirmation.

You are you, regardless of how we differ or agree in definition. Your thoughts whether they are argumentative or compliant compose the ever evolving spiraling entirety of you in your delectable mysterious ambiguous glorious totality.

 

You are you!

Miraculously stupendously ubiquitously marvelously sexually sensually
artistically intelligently humorously spiritually mentally physically
nitrogenically celestially universally vibrationally defined! I love it: one ongoing
never stopping miraculous process of implementing fertilization and eliminating decay.

Now, you tell me: is that one hell of deal or what? If we were in a poker game, I’d say we all had Jacks or better to open with Aces over Kings in a full house. What cha’ gonna do with
something like that? YOU decide!

No Time For Bruised Egos!

Because we are propelled into this world to ‘root, hog, or die’ we form a ‘clinging to life’ vexation unconsciously. Separation Anxiety  has already been indelibly imprinted due to the fact we didn’t want to be separated form the warm conducive place we existed in prior to birth. We open our eyes to
a world of extremes.

Unmentionable chaos, noise, and irascible characters that are as afraid as we.

They (parent or parents) try; they do the best they can with what they have. Some do better than others, or so it seems. But to no real avail; we are still lost in a new world of vicarious undertaking.

One of which we must forge our own way. Once again, our fragile self is brought to the forefront; scared to pieces of the life-threatening possibility: ‘what will happen to us?”

So, we cling. But, all along, we subconsciously resent that we must be dependent on our primary caretakers, for we must grow beyond the self-serving dependency in order for the fragile self to expand and discover its inherent strength. How do we resolve the constant ambiguity?

By inventing games, so we can live with the guilt of lying and manipulating circumstances, compromising our integrity in order to stay satiated, while we perform acts of external entertainment to gain further favor.

Let us clarify, these instinctive drives are not unhealthy nor unholy but because the caretaker intrudes upon the child indiscriminately, in ignorance, no less, the child feels a certain allegiance to appease the ‘support giver’ at the expense of his/her own growing needs.

But, to find self-supporting self-identity without identification will take a life of conquering harboring paranoia. Complicated assignment to be sure, but part of the sojourn on earth is to be able to rectify soul’s intentional return, by inclusion of expansion and evolvement, to the divine source.

We walk through life projecting and transferring our repressed emotions on others because we can’t deal with the underlying hostility of not being able to separate clean. (Whether from mother, father, boyfriend, lover, husband, mate, partner or friend) It’s the same age old scenario: we want to separate and unite at the same time. We want to grow up but remain infantile in our demands and actions.

One, or the other, must suffer; usually our sense of self. In the birth process, in order to live, we must separate from the mother. But, in doing so, because the event is virtually so traumatic, we never get fully over it. We carry this underlying diffused ambiguity throughout life of wanting to live on our own terms, as a fully functioning individual, but at the same time, not wanting to break away from our mother in order to do so.

Every relationship is based upon these deeply ingrained emotional infantile experiences.

Whether we interpreted our childhood as pleasant or unpleasant does not negate the separation anxiety that was naturally inflicted during the divisional birth process. In other words, our sense of self is highly vulnerable because of the separation anxiety induced.

We fight to cling and fight to disconnect. We shall not even get into the area of how the mother adds to this complexity of fragileness with her own needs of dependency, clinginess and separation anxiety. And, on it goes and goes and goes.

In order for us to build, establish and maintain our own formidable productive sense of emancipated separateness and unrestrained identity we must be willing free the mother of any sense of wrong doing; whether that involved too much love, too little love or none at all.

By doing so, we can unleash, the innate celestial force in a practical, applicable and self-sustaining positive way. We will unconditionally recognize and fully appreciate our temporary housing facility on earth as we were sojourned for a brief season in our mother’s womb. We’re all going home. We’re all in this thing together.

No time for bruised egos, fragile sense of self and stationary harbingering grief. Let us all celebrate our arrival here and make the best trip back we can possibly dream up, imagine and execute. No lust of result involved, simply do it!

WE Are involved in the Process but NOT the Results!

Mode of Cosmic Therapy: No Gratitude for Human Beings Who Expect or Plan It